Do you feel like your fetish is not being taken care of? You might be missing the “sexuelle ne sais quois” with your partner. In this age technology, you don’t need to look further than your phone screen to find your perfect masochistic partner. You may just meet your ideal partner in crime with this list of the top fetish dating sites.
Free Adult Dating Sites and Sex Hookup Apps
- Adult Friend Finder (Sex Dating Site)
- Alt.com
- Out Personals (Gay Dating)
- Ashley Madison ( Married Hookup and Affair Dating )
- Passion
- No String Attached
- Cams (Adult Chatting Online)
- Horny Wife (Meet Women)
- Swap Finder
- EZ Dating
This online community is essential to meet like-minded people and find open-minded individuals. You can have vanilla relationships or sex with a kink! You can simply enter your preferences, and then start swiping.
You don’t have to worry if this is your first time on the scene. Are you a little kink-curious about it? It’s possible to dip your toes in the fetish dating pool, which is available to novices and experts alike.
Fetish.com – Kink-Positive BDSM Forum for Fetish Dating
Fetish.com is an online dating platform for fetish lovers. It bridges the gap in the online kink community as well as online dating. This site allows you to unleash your inner hedonist, without having to venture too far from your comfort zone. There is something for everyone, including a forum, magazine and local kinky activities.
Perks Have both fun and serenity with the “Quick Kink” swipe option. Also, you can roam around other naughty members. This fetish dating website allows fetish lovers and kink-curious people to meet and mingle online.
Limits While you cannot chat on dating sites without a membership, the free version of is great for getting to know other people.
Price: Try the site free of charge. However, you may wish to purchase a premium membership for full access to the community. Premium is EUR35.90; VIP EUR59.90. A 6-month membership costs EUR59.90.
Tip: You might be able to get more from the fetish outfit challenge. VIP will allow you to rise above the rest of your search results!
Fantasy: Poly, Open Minded, Monogamish and Swingers – Sex-Positive Daating by Fantasies
This app is not as sexy as some others. However, Fantasy’s sex-positive approach focusing on fulfilling your diverse fantasies offers a breather. Most popular among couples searching for a third member or polyamorous men. You can swipe back or forth instead of just swipe and move on – in case you have missed that special someone.
Perks The app is more user-friendly that most others. You are warmly welcome with a message by Andrew the founder. It’s visually brighter and less BDSM-prone, but you can also add those to either your private or public fantasies section!
One perk is that your private fantasies can only be unlocked once you’ve matched. It keeps members on their toes.
Limits It is not possible to filter by geography. This means that you will see people from all around the globe, but you won’t be able to filter by country. This is great news for US citizens.
Price: Absolutely Free
Tip: Use the “Stories” function to post an announcement about meeting people in your neighborhood.
Whiplr – A Messenger With Kinks
Whiplr is a community of approximately 800,000 people that will introduce you to a wide range of kinksters from beginners to professionals. They believe everyone is welcome and promote “a messenger sans borders”.
Perks. If you get bored of textual conversations and want to communicate with other people, Whiplr can help.
You should start by setting the scene with a fun icebreaker. There are many animated gifs that can be used to set the scene. These include a feather, blindfold or drip hot wax.
Limits. You can also message other users, just like some of the other kink dating app. You may find yourself inundated with unwelcome attention, even if you are searching for playmates online. This app does not provide real kink-dating.
Cost Free Download, but Premium Price for More Advanced Features is $19.99 per Month
Tip: We have strict guidelines that you should follow to avoid unsolicited pictures and reports are taken seriously. Fetlife allows you to “un-send” messages or images if you are unhappy with the content.
FetApp: Lifestyle BDSM Community
Fet App has a dark red-and-black theme and seems designed for those who know what they want. You can create an in-depth profile and define your role. You can swipe the app and use a few filters to show you your “last online”, “nearby”, and “newest” feeds.
Perks Your unique feed, where you can write “what’s going on in your kinky head” – similar as a Facebook status – allows others to see you and get in touch. You can also find kinky people using the group chat function based on your location, fetish and LGBTQ+ preferences, or even vanilla.
The downsides of This app can be difficult to navigate, and it is limited to joining multiple group conversations. Even if your swipe feed is set to “nearby”, it’s possible to receive messages from people all around the globe. Although they have a no-scam policy, there are some scammers involved in their verification process.
Price: Absolutely Free
Here’s a tip: Join a group you are interested in to meet other kinky folks.
Fetlife.com: The Social Network for BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community
This website, which is red-and-black themed, is the Facebook of the fetish community. Fetlife.com primarily serves as a social network platform that allows you to meet more than 8 million other fetishsters. This site, which is dark and shady, has been the mainstay of the internet for “kinksters just like you” for 10 year. It’s not a dating site but you can browse the (definitely NSFW-themed) feeds, events, and fetishes of the site to find kinky folks.
Perks Every single kinkster is here. Simply dive into one of the 100,000 group. It’s great for learning about local kinky events.
Limits You can’t search for kinksters based upon their age, location, or sex. Because it is very difficult to navigate and visually unappealing – a dark alley – sex remains taboo. Warning: Once you comment on someone’s feed, it is impossible to remove.
Price: Absolutely Free
Tip: Search for events and find out about local munches, which are casual meetups with kinky people from your area.
Kinkoo: Kinky, Fet BDSM Dating
Kinkoo offers a swipe function similar to Tinder that allows you to scan other Kinksters to your heart’s desire. After you have completed a profile verification to remove fake accounts, you can then enter your “activeness” in the kink scene. This will allow others to mentor or match you as you develop in the community.
Bonus: Even though we only gave this app a 2/5 star rating for its kinky dating features, there are still a few perks you may enjoy. You can sign up and get coins to buy roses to give to others. Have you run out of roses yet? You can get more coins.
Limits Unlike Tinder, which allows only your matches to communicate with you, this app does not have a filter. Anyone who discovers your account can message or contact you.
No cost. Chat free. For as little as PS199.99, you can get 5000 coins that will purchase you 10,000 roses.
Tip: Do not turn on your notifications if you do not want to receive them.
KinkD: Fetish BDSM Dating & Kinky Fet Lifestyle
KinkD, which was relaunched on August 2018, has more than 500k users. They have apparently removed the swiping function. Although this may upset some users, the goal was to create a more active (and less-mindless) experience. Now there are “Monthly KinkD stars”, which is a way to say that those most liked are the ones who are most found and contacted. This is essentially a popularity contest.
Perks Kinkoo is more strict than Kinkoo and KinkD requires a photo ID to verify that it is catfish-free. For those who are interested, you may have a private album that can be viewed by other playmates.
Limits This layout is quite unappealing, but it’s more “safe for working” than many others. You are more likely to get messages from people all around the world because there is not a filter function.
Cost: No cost, or for PS50.99 for six months. You can send unlimited messages and set advanced preferences (we assume that’s where the filtering comes in hand), get access to your followers and see who viewed you.
Tip: Take part in the KinkD Photo Contest. The top three will be awarded a premium membership for a month.
It is safe to say that we have never had such a great time meeting like-minded people. Are you looking for fun and friendly Fetish.com? Or maybe Fantasy to meet polyamorous friends?
The online world of kinks is your oyster. Make sure they like sploshing*with shellfish too.